TCK Training Library

What Made That Feel So Hard?: The Unstacking Method is the most comprehensive resource that has been created on the Grief Tower Model. Vulnerably diving into her own journey over the past decade, Lauren shows us how to use the Unstacking Method in our own life and also with children and adults in both informal and professional settings. This book is both a personal guide and a professional resource. Learn more at

Raising Up a Generation of Healthy Third Culture Kids

Lauren Wells
The parent's guide to understanding what their globally mobile kids need.

The Grief Tower

A how-to manual on help your family lay out their Grief Tower timeline.

Unstacking Your Grief Tower

An ACTK's guide to outlining their own Grief Tower timeline and unstacking their grief blocks.

The Practice of Processing

Elizabeth Vahey Smith
A systematic approach to outlining what it means to emotionally process and how to do it with tips for supporting kids.